“You can observe a lot just by watching.” - Yogi Berra
Best not to read between the lines
My hair has gotten long enough that I wore it to school in a pony tail for the first time. A group of third grade girls approached me at recess and one of them said "you don't look like you!" while a second girl went in for the kill - "you look really pretty".
I could only laugh, and totally appreciate the sweet intention.