"Mrs Y I think Jessica's hurt. She's crying really hard." I found Jessica and she was indeed crying really hard - that kind of crying that makes it hard to speak. Trying to assess what was wrong, I asked her why she was crying and had to strain to understand her as she sputtered out "My friend said something I hate". Assuming she had heard something like " You're not my friend" or "I don't like you" I said "Oh my goodness it looks like she really hurt your feelings. What did she say?" I'm certain I didn't hide my surprise (or probably my smirk) when her answer was "smoked salmon" because she went on to explain, between sobs, "I hate sea food".